Monday, November 12, 2007

Wedding Table 37




Me and housemate Suraya went to my ex Uni mate's wedding last night in Saujana Ballroom,near old Subang airport. Nice and cozy place.. i couldn't find my name anywhere in the guess list.. [panic attack] All the ex Biz Faculty mates were supposed to be in one table - Table 37. [panic attack again] Tried to look for any names that rhymes like mine..found one but that was the person who was registrating our names :p Jolynn tried to push them to put in my name as the 11th person at that table, but they insisted on knowing my full name [panic attack..help!] Maybe because of the way Jolynn kept pushing them to just add in my name that they finally agreed and added my name (using pencil) to table 37 [less panic but still worried they might not let me sit at table 37]

We had some refreshment drinks before the dinner started - coke & sprite. The card said 7 sharp but as usual, people only started arriving after 7. We went straight to Table 37 and caught up with our long lost mates,exchanging hi's and hello's, commenting on how one looked good now... I looked around the ballroom and noticed that the deco was so simple but nice. Small boxes of fruit cake on the table was delicious but got to know later that it was not fresh, we can see small molds around the cake...ooops! luckily still no news of cirit-birit from anyone yet :)

The bride and groom made an entrance somewhere around 8 and totally caught my attention. They looked good together, complimented each other - he has that matured yet naughty cheeky kinda look;hers was serene and sweet.

It started with a short intro of the bride & groom's childhood video, i guess that is the norm in wedding reception nowadays... Then the food came! It was not too bad....ooh, and we had red wine. I had 3!!

The selection of music was superb! All the right songs were being played - not too mushy and not too hyper..perfect!

x x x x x x x x

10.30pm - all of us at Table 37 started taking photographs and exchanging contacts. It was fun to meet up after such long time. I think the next reception would be Siew Leng's...In January if i heard her correctly.

11.00pm - We parted ways after hugging and saying our goodbyes....

x x x x x x x x

The reception was simple yet had a nice 'after feeling'. I hope mine will be as simple and as relaxing as theirs. But i do hope i get a garden or island wedding :p

To Sherly & Kar Yew...... 'yuuuuuuuuuuuum senggggggg'!!!!!!




Wednesday, November 07, 2007

Claims claims claims

so many receipts and i cannot even remember what and when is it for!! that's what you get when you do your 4-months claim at one go. Then you start to think very hard which office did you go to on 13 July, which parking i went to and try to match with all the parking receipts i have on hand....oh oh and where the hell did my MC go!!!!!! **sigh...

Lesson of the day - do your claim ASAP and take the damn LRT when you go into KL! :p

Tuesday, November 06, 2007

爱真的需要勇气

My friend recently sent an article about love...maybe he thought i needed a little 'reminder' of what is left in my life beside work :)

what is it about love?

"往往许多人在抉择伴侣时,容易东想西想,不知所措,就是因为害怕一时做错决定,看错人,造成终生的遗憾。

诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说:「此时此刻在地球上,约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣,就看你先遇到哪一个,如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前,你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系,那后者就会变成你的好朋友,但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系,感情就容易动摇、变心,直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情,才是幸福的开始,漂泊的结束」

爱上一个人不需要靠努力,只需要靠「际遇」,是上天的安排,但是「持续地爱一个人」就要靠「努力」,在爱情的经营中,顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体谅、包容与自制(面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是为「际遇」所迷惑与苦恼,意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散,而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。 所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr. Right,而是要问说在眼前的伴侣关系中,我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度,若没有培养出经营幸福的能力,就算真的 Mr. Right出现在你身边,幸福依然会错过的,而活在犹疑与遗憾当中,这不就是许多「爱情虚无症」的遭遇与心态吗?

若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣,不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了,我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱,就是「近亲生慢侮」,也就是经济学中的铁律「边际效益递减法则」,跟你在一起越久的人,就越容易麻木与忽视,而新鲜的「际遇」总是那么动人可爱。


在感情对待中,难免有摩擦与无心的伤害,而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人,当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢,又还没开始有得罪你的机会,再加上他的刻意讨好,所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱,旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。

但别忘了,新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数,旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的「际遇」中迷失了自己,错放了幸福温暖的手。

所以萧伯纳的话,是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一,应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上,同时也提醒我们「溺水三千只取一瓢饮」若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣,就不要再三心二意了,因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个,所以要知福惜福 、活在当下。

勇气
终于作了这个决定 别人怎么说我不理
只要你也一样的肯定 我愿意天涯海角都随你去
我知道一切不容易 我的心一直温习说服自己
最怕你忽然说要放弃 爱真的需要勇气来面对流言蜚语
只要你一个眼神肯定 我的爱就有意义
我们都需要勇气 去相信会在一起 人潮拥挤我能感觉你 放在我手心里你的真心



Monday, November 05, 2007

Vamos Nadal!!!





My kind of man :)

My 29th Sweet Escape

she composes her own songs..i like her
she is so down-to-earth...i like her
she has the blondest hair...i like her
she has the most bizarre sense of fashion..i like her
she designs her own clothing lines..i like her
she has a baby boy whose name is so unique was voted one of the most unique celebrity's childname...i like her
she is soooo sexy...that's why i like her more
she has a really sexy looking hubby...can i like him too? :)

Went to her concert in August. My good friend Sumalee got us tickets (my birthday present) seats at the last row in stadium Bukit Jalil, but who cares that it's far back... i got to see and listen to her sing live in Malaysia!!!!!

Managed to catch a few photos of her performance. And gals... Hollaback Girl really rocks!
I Love You Gwen!!!

Enjoy the show!















Friday, November 02, 2007

UAT syndrome

Feeling lazy
Feeling sick
Quick to snap
Sigh too much
Imsomnia
Day dreaming of vacation far far away
Dateline Dateline Dateline
Stressed out....

This is what we call UAT syndrome. When you do UAT and you will look at the system and say - U Are Terrible!!